Do You Keep Testing People? This Might Be Why

Do You Keep Testing People? This Might Be Why

Do You Keep Testing People? This Might Be WhyShan Howard MSW, LISW
Published on: 18/06/2025

You say things like, “Let’s see if they care,” or “If they really wanted to, they would.” At first glance, it might look like a trust issue. But underneath? It’s often a fear of being forgotten, replaced, or ...

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Does Forgiveness Always Mean Healing? A Realistic Take

Does Forgiveness Always Mean Healing? A Realistic Take

Does Forgiveness Always Mean Healing? A Realistic TakeShan Howard MSW, LISW
Published on: 16/04/2025

“If I forgive them, will I finally be at peace?” Have you ever been told that you must forgive in order to heal—only to feel worse, not better, afterward?...

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How to Spot Emotional Manipulation Early

How to Spot Emotional Manipulation Early

How to Spot Emotional Manipulation EarlyShan Howard MSW, LISW
Published on: 20/02/2025

Emotional manipulation isn’t always loud, obvious, or aggressive. More often, it’s a slow, calculated erosion of your self-trust—disguised as care, concern, or even love. The most insidious part? You may not even realize it's happening...

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Why Do We Stay in Dysfunctional Relationships?

Why Do We Stay in Dysfunctional Relationships?

Why Do We Stay in Dysfunctional Relationships?Shan Howard MSW, LISW
Published on: 11/02/2025

Have you ever found yourself staying in a relationship that doesn't feel right, even though deep down, you know it’s doing more harm than good? What makes us hold on to something that doesn’t serve our well-being?...

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